Comments on: Grieving Your Past Life When Becoming A Mom https://www.jessannkirby.com/grieving-your-past-life-when-becoming-a-mom/ A New England based lifestyle blog written and curated by Jess Ann Kirby. JessAnnKirby.com is a place to foster connection, creativity, and meaningful conversation. Mon, 31 Jan 2022 02:53:30 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.0.1 By: Kelley Boymer https://www.jessannkirby.com/grieving-your-past-life-when-becoming-a-mom/#comment-138704 Wed, 26 Jan 2022 19:08:11 +0000 https://www.jessannkirby.com/?p=40993#comment-138704 In reply to Kelly.

Thanks miss! So so grateful to have you and all of our mama friends to check in and help each other along on this crazy ride! Xo

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By: Kelley Boymer https://www.jessannkirby.com/grieving-your-past-life-when-becoming-a-mom/#comment-138703 Wed, 26 Jan 2022 19:07:07 +0000 https://www.jessannkirby.com/?p=40993#comment-138703 In reply to Laura.

Thank you, Laura! It is such a sacrifice as I’m sure being a step mother is as well! It’s pretty amazing being able to help guide these little ones through life.

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By: Kelley Boymer https://www.jessannkirby.com/grieving-your-past-life-when-becoming-a-mom/#comment-138702 Wed, 26 Jan 2022 19:04:31 +0000 https://www.jessannkirby.com/?p=40993#comment-138702 In reply to Karen Decker.

Labor is truly traumatic and being thrown into motherhood right after that is just insane. Thank you so much for taking your own experiences in order to help other mamas. The “enjoy every minute” line creates so much pressure for moms to always be happy and that is just not a reality. I can tell you are going to be the very best MIL and grandma some day!

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By: Kelley Boymer https://www.jessannkirby.com/grieving-your-past-life-when-becoming-a-mom/#comment-138701 Wed, 26 Jan 2022 19:00:44 +0000 https://www.jessannkirby.com/?p=40993#comment-138701 In reply to Ali Church.

Good for you for modeling for you children how important it is to get out with friends and enjoy yourself! It is so important for kids to see their parents take care of themselves and have fun moments like this together. Cocktails sound fun too!

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By: Kelley Boymer https://www.jessannkirby.com/grieving-your-past-life-when-becoming-a-mom/#comment-138700 Wed, 26 Jan 2022 18:58:48 +0000 https://www.jessannkirby.com/?p=40993#comment-138700 In reply to Alexa M.

I can totally relate, Alexa! Everyone says, “enjoy the peace and quiet now” and that puts so much pressure on things. One day at a time. So excited for you to meet that little baby soon and know that you will still have special time with your partner and furbabies too!

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By: Kelley Boymer https://www.jessannkirby.com/grieving-your-past-life-when-becoming-a-mom/#comment-138699 Wed, 26 Jan 2022 18:56:20 +0000 https://www.jessannkirby.com/?p=40993#comment-138699 In reply to Jennifer.

Oh my goodness, I can’t even imagine the grief of sending those once newborns off to college. This is such an important insight. We grieve our pre-baby lives and then we grieve losing those babies when they are old enough to go out into the world on their own. Such a nice reminder to cherish the moments we have with them now. Such a rollercoaster! I feel like I am just starting my ride and there are lots of ups and downs ahead.

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By: Kelley Boymer https://www.jessannkirby.com/grieving-your-past-life-when-becoming-a-mom/#comment-138698 Wed, 26 Jan 2022 18:53:28 +0000 https://www.jessannkirby.com/?p=40993#comment-138698 In reply to Whitney.

Thank you, Whitney! I’m excited to share more as well 🙂

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By: Kelley Boymer https://www.jessannkirby.com/grieving-your-past-life-when-becoming-a-mom/#comment-138697 Wed, 26 Jan 2022 18:53:05 +0000 https://www.jessannkirby.com/?p=40993#comment-138697 In reply to Kristen Vincent.

The sleep deprivation is so real!!! There is no way to prepare for that. I’m so glad you asked for help to get you through this rough time. I hope you can continue to take care of yourself and enjoy those moments with your little one too.

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By: Kelley Boymer https://www.jessannkirby.com/grieving-your-past-life-when-becoming-a-mom/#comment-138696 Wed, 26 Jan 2022 18:51:22 +0000 https://www.jessannkirby.com/?p=40993#comment-138696 In reply to Mac.

Taking that leap is totally terrifying and overwhelming but also so amazing! Just know that whatever you decide and whenever you feel ready, it will all come together! It can feel like a lot at times, but it comes in waves and you tackle each new challenge while also enjoying those beautiful moments. One day at a time! Good luck with journey ahead!

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By: Kelley Boymer https://www.jessannkirby.com/grieving-your-past-life-when-becoming-a-mom/#comment-138695 Wed, 26 Jan 2022 18:49:00 +0000 https://www.jessannkirby.com/?p=40993#comment-138695 In reply to Barbara.

Wow, that is a lot to take on all at once Barbara! It’s amazing how much these little ones teach us. Enjoy those small victories for sure!

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